
The Father Who Finds Us
Father’s Day is wonderfully complicated. For some, it’s a day of braais, hugs and gratitude for the unique love of a present Dad. For others, it cracks open an ache they work hard to keep shut – memories of a father who was distant, harsh, absent, even violent. The reality of never having had a father – the gaping hole seeming extra deep and painful. Still, others feel caught in between: thankful for a good father, yet aware of his humanity and limitations.